radicalducati Chapter 249 Is it difficult to love him? You are a couple
Chapter 249 Is it difficult to love him? You are a couple
The reason why he likes Xu Chacha so much is not only because she is kind-hearted, but also because her weak look always arouses her desire to protect.
Unlike Xu Anan's aggressiveness, and unlike Gao Mengting's lively and outgoing personality, Xu Chacha would not be able to survive without him.
But now if he wants to rely on his father to save Xu Chacha, it seems that he can only agree to terminate the engagement.
Su Jingcheng was very irritable. He didn't want to stay in this depressing home, so he drove away directly to find friends to drink and relieve his boredom.
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The hard work paid off. After a week of persistent stalking, Zhou Xun finally got some news about Lu Jinyan's condition from his psychiatrist friend.
"Self-harm disorder..." Xu Anan frowned as he heard the name given by Zhou Xun.
She didn't expect this term to be a disease.
Zhou Xun nodded, with a rare solemn expression, "Well, because of some of Ayan's previous experiences. You also know that his parents' relationship is not good at all, and Uncle Su is outside again..."
Zhou Xun hesitated to speak. Although he looked down upon Su Mingtang's actions, it was not easy to comment on others behind their backs.
Xu Anan also knew this in his heart.
Lu Jinyan's parents had an arranged marriage, and their relationship was not good.
Su Mingtang has a somewhat rebellious mentality. The more oppressive his family is, the more he has to resist in order to appear capable and existential. So he found Wang Yutong outside and gave birth to Su Jingcheng.
Wang Yutong had a pitiful life experience.
Her family was poor, her father was ill, and her mother worked small jobs to support the family. There was no other way, so young Wang Yutong could only go out to work to make money. Wang Yutong, who had no money, no power, but was somewhat pretty, herself
However, he will be teased, and just in time, he meets Su Mingtang, a hero who saves the beauty.
In Su Mingtang's eyes, Wang Yutong was weak and needed protection and compassion, and she was completely dependent on him. Such a person can inspire Su Mingtang's desire for protection, so the two of them have an extramarital affair without hesitation.
When Lu Jinyan's mother found out about this, she naturally made a big fuss. The more this happened, the more disgusted Su Mingtang became. The two of them started arguing and fighting, which made Lu Jinyan's childhood tortured.
His mother died young and his father didn't care. One can imagine Lu Jinyan's childhood.
Lu Jinyan's childhood was not very happy, and it is normal to have some mental illnesses.
Thinking of this, Xu An'an naturally had no good feelings towards Su Mingtang, "Sooner or later he will be punished for doing this. He doesn't like such a powerful and outstanding son, so he goes..."
But who can blame others?
I think she was not blind in her previous life and liked the hypocritical and incompetent young man like Su Jingcheng.
Su Mingtang did not achieve a complete victory in the fight with Lu Jinyan's mother, and put his competitive spirit between Su Jingcheng and Lu Jinyan.
He very much hoped that Su Jingcheng could defeat Lu Jinyan, in which case he would be considered a real victory.
Zhou Xun's face looked slightly unnatural.
After all, Su Mingtang is Lu Jinyan's biological father no matter what. It is always a bit bad to discuss an elder like this behind his back.
He coughed a few times, and then said: "I think we should study this disease first."
Xu Anan nodded in agreement. She was a little confused, "What did your friend say?"
Zhou Xin sat upright, and then slowly spoke, "My friend described it like this
. The behaviors of this disease include self-mutilation, impact, burns, etc. Use these methods to relieve your emotional pressure or relieve some inner pain. "
Xu Anan's eyes moved slightly.
When Lu Jinyan hurt himself that night, he asked him why he did it, and Lu Jinyan replied that it was so comfortable.
It seems that he was probably suffering because of what he had experienced since childhood.
She really wanted to go to Lu Jinyan right now to comfort him, hug him, and tell him that it was okay.
Thinking of this, Xu Anan's expression couldn't help but reveal some distress.
Zhou Xun continued: "The causes of self-injurious behavior may involve psychological trauma, depression, anxiety, inferiority complex and other issues, which need to be treated through comprehensive treatments such as psychotherapy and drug treatment."
"Depression..." Xu Anan was very keen when hearing these two words.
More than ten years later, this word appears frequently on the Internet.
As everyone's lives get better and better and there are no longer any material needs, many people have mental problems.
The Internet is full of negative emotions, as if anyone who doesn’t suffer from depression is too embarrassed to make friends.
That kind of atmosphere seemed very morbid in Xu Anan's opinion.
People with real depression often feel helpless, hopeless, frustrated and other negative emotions, and self-harm may become a way for them to relieve their emotions.
Xu Anan was a little frightened.
She had never understood why Lu Jinyan died of illness at a young age when there were so many talented people around him.
Now she seemed to suddenly understand.
Lu Jinyan probably committed suicide rather than dying young because of any incurable disease.
Zhou Xun didn't notice Xu Anan
His face became increasingly pale, and he continued to sigh, "Ayan's current situation is that he hates himself, and will fall into negative emotions when he has an attack. As for the specific events or thoughts, my friend did not tell me clearly."
"But I know that this must be related to his childhood experience. Ayan has lacked father's love and mother's love since he was a child... No wonder it is like this. Hey, I used to think that nothing in this world can defeat him, but now it seems... "
Xu Anan was very distressed and anxious, "Did your friend tell me how to treat it specifically?"
Now maybe Lu Jinyan just suffers from a moderate to severe self-harm disorder, but if he ignores it, who knows whether his condition will become more serious?
If it really develops into severe depression, it is really not something that doctors can treat.
Zhou Xun's eyebrows moved slightly, but his expression was not as tense as before, "It can be treated. My friend said that Ayan's condition is not too serious yet, so there is still hope."
Xu Anan looked serious and seemed to be listening attentively.
Zhou Xun narrowed his peach blossom eyes, and then said loudly to Xu Anan: "Lu Jinyan lacks love!"
Xu Anan was stunned, "I know. I'm asking you how to treat it."
Zhou Xun was a little helpless, "I mean, he is like this because he lacks love. Then just love him and give him love. Give him a lot of love. That's okay."
Zhou Xun was also stunned when he got this answer from his friend.
What is this treatment called?
He also pestered his friend for a long time. In the end, his friend had no choice but to tell him carefully over and over again.
Until he was sure that his friend really didn't have sex with him
It was a joke, and I didn't bother myself to accept this treatment method.
Xu Anan was stunned.
No medication or some psychological counseling?
Just want to love Lu Jinyan?
Thinking of this, she felt her face getting hot.
When Zhou Xun saw Xu Anan's expression, he looked understanding. But he felt a little strange, and he glanced at Xu An'an suspiciously, "Why, is this matter so difficult? You are a couple..."